First wedding post!

So this is my first wedding post. I started this for my own health. I have too much in my head and I need to get it out. I have never planned a wedding before and as students we have to think about the money, though we are not the most poorest people. Still money doesn´t just grow in trees and I want to think that later in life we can actually afford living our married life without money problems just because we had to have a cool amazing the best of the best wedding.

After saying that I still must say, that I do want the wedding to be fun, look like our style and our guests should enjoy there life. Truly have fun. That in mind i think one of the main point should be good food and enough drink and probably good music. I also am a theatrical person and I feel so is mr J, so the wedding should have some little extra.

I think the look of this web page will still change. It will try to find it´s look and style just like our wedding, whitch should be in the year 2016 at summer. That is all we know for now. O and that wedding will be in Finland, even tough mr J and his family is from Belgium. I have drawn my invacard here (yes, I´m in a wheelchair and yes i hate that specially when trying to figure a wedding dress that would look good.. but no more about that now) and desided that for moving around and getting things done before wedding and at the wedding I want to have the wedding in my country. Mr J didn´t seem to care in which country to have the wedding. All in all, I do feel I will need his oppinions a bit more in the future. But dear people do not think I am not asking his oppinion, he just is a man, you know, not caring much about what the wedding looks like, just that we are together and have fun. I love him!

So what to say more. I gess I wanna say hi. I can promise that this site and blog will be confusing, since I am kinda writing it for myself but also keeping in mind that someone else might be reading this too. And I might write in finnish sometimes, if i don´t feel like writing all in english -my english writing is not perfect at all, but it is more international and came naturally from me when I started creating this site.

May the year be happy and not go too fast!

Minkki89

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